Financial preparation is important for any family with children. When one of the children is special needs, the needs is amplified.
What if the parent(s) or guardian are killed or incapacitated?
Will the new guardian be able to financially, emotionally, and legally be able to take care of the disabled child the same way their mother and / or father can?
Always a tough situation, there are steps that should be taken to minimize the devastation that will occur for the special needs child when their parent or guardian is gone. The following information is by no means a complete description of what needs to be done for every family since needs and situations differ, but it can be a good guide on where to start and what to consider.
Please consult with legal council or insurance / financial professional where necessary.
Life Insurance: Buying life insurance is a great way to leave an income source to a dependent who needs support until they can support themselves. With a child with special needs the inability to support themselves could stretch well into adulthood or even their lifetime.
Realistically, how many years of income will be needed, and how much per year? 18 or 21 may not be the goal in this case.
Will Government support be enough?
Can the guardian you've chosen to help your child financial afford to take on that responsibility? They might want to, but can they?
Life Insurance on the lives of the parents or guardians is a key step to take.
Other steps to consider:
Create a last Will and Testament: A will should outlines how you want your assets (estate) distributed. Have a lawyer guide you through the process. This is not the time to Do-It-Yourself. Leaving assets to a special needs child directly may jeopardize any government aid they receive such as Social Security, MediCare, or Medicaid / MediCal. So make sure your attorney helps you figure out if you should designate someone to take care of the estate. In these cases a Will is not enough. See Trusts below.
Don't NOT buy insurance out of the fear of losing government support. Do it the right way instead. Government support with current government budgetary problems could make future support unreliable.
- Decide on the right Guardian(s): Appoint a trusted and responsible adult to make financial & medical decisions for the special needs child. You might need to choose a short term and a long term guardian. Example: the grandparents might be the best choice, but for how long?